love – Unsilenced

The Ministry Wrote Back. But They Still Didn’t Answer.

Nov 10, 2025

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in Advocacy & Action, Autism, Bennett’s Story, British Columbia, Child welfare, Child Welfare Reform, Disability and Justice, Disability Rights, Letters and Responses, MCFD, MCFD Accountability, social justice, Systemic Failures

After months of documentation, I received a letter that thanked me for “advocating” while ignoring the evidence of harm. This is what systemic failure looks like on official paper.

What Two Months of Government Custody Has Done to My Child

Oct 28, 2025

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darianlathomas

in Bennett’s Story, Bring Bennett Home, Child Welfare Reform, Disability Rights, Family Seperation, Human Stories, MCFD Accountability, Medical Neglect in Care, Parent Advocacy, Safety & Rights, Systemic Failures, Systemic Failures in BC, systemic negligence, trauma

Two months apart, and my son’s body is telling the story the ministry won’t. Bruises, weight loss, complications at his G-tube site—each ignored while bureaucracy hides behind “delays.” I’m fighting for answers, but Bennett is the one paying the price.

Five Letters In, and Still No Answers from MCFD

Oct 18, 2025

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darianlathomas

in Advocacy & Action, Bennett’s Story, Child Protection, Child welfare, Disability Rights, family advocacy, Family Seperation, Human Rights in Canada, Legal update, Medical & Care Needs, Medical rights, Parent Voice, Parental Rights, Resources for Families, Safety & Rights, System & Policy, Systemic Failures

My lawyer sent another formal letter to MCFD demanding answers they’ve refused to provide for months — about their failure to disclose, refusal to reunify, and ongoing harm to my son. I won’t stop speaking up until Bennett is safely back home.

BC Mother Challenges MCFD in Court Over Withheld Evidence

Oct 4, 2025

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darianlathomas

in Advocacy & Action, Bennett’s Story, Child Protection, Child welfare, family advocacy, Family Seperation, Legal update, Parent Voice, Parental Rights, Safety & Rights, System & Policy, Systemic Failures

On October 2, 2025, my lawyer sent a letter to MCFD that put into writing what I’ve been saying for months — that silence and delay are not child protection. After a month of unanswered emails, withheld reports, and decisions made behind closed doors, the letter demanded accountability. It called out MCFD’s refusal to hold…

A Mother’s Worst Nightmare: How System Failures Separated a Vulnerable Child from His Family

Oct 4, 2025

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darianlathomas

in Advocacy & Action, Bennett’s Story, Child Protection, Child welfare, family advocacy, Family Seperation, Medical & Care Needs, Parent Voice, Parental Rights, Safety & Rights, System & Policy, Systemic Failures

My six-year-old son, Bennett, who has complex disabilities, was apprehended by the Ministry of Children and Family Development (MCFD) while I was hospitalized. They ignored a fully supported family care plan and placed him in an inappropriate facility. This is the story of our fight for transparency and reunification against a system that failed us.

My Lawyer’s Letter to MCFD — and the Truth It Forced Into the Light

Sep 8, 2025

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darianlathomas

in Bennett’s Story, Bring Bennett Home, Child Welfare Reform, Formal Complaints and Legal Actions, Legal and Political Advocacy, Legal update, MCFD Accountability, Parent Advocacy, Systemic Failures, systemic negligence

When my lawyer sent this letter to MCFD, it wasn’t just legal correspondence — it was evidence. Evidence that they lost critical safety files, ignored past findings of harm, and then tried to pretend none of it ever happened. Every word of this letter is proof that the system meant to protect my son has…

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